5 Traits of Success

Posted by Kevin Merritt on July 28th, 2008

Over the years I’ve come to know a number of very successful people. Obviously the definition of success varies from person to person. If you’re an environmentalist, success might be measured by the number of trees you’ve preserved. If you’re an emergency room physician it might be lives saved. If you’re an artist, success might be simply defined as being able to make a living by painting.

I’ve thought a bit about success as relates to the people I know. Five elements are present in every successful person I’ve met.

1. Successful people have a clear definition of success itself. If you’re a salesperson, it might be achieving a $1M sales quota. If you’re a baseball player, it might be making it to the major leagues. To a video gamer it might be setting the high score in their favorite game. Successful people set goals for themselves. They write their goals down. World champion swimmer Michael Phelps wrote down his goals at age 11 and still reads the list almost every day.

2. Successful people regularly revise their goals upward. When the salesperson reaches the $1M quota, she tells herself “Next year I’m going to reach $2M!” The baseball player revises his goals from making the majors, to breaking into the starting lineup, to making the all-star team to being inducted into the hall of fame.

These first two success markers carry a hidden trait. Successful people measure their progress.

3. Successful people are usually smart. This one is fairly self-evident. That said, smart people have a tendency to procrastinate and be somewhat lazy, which often results in them not investing heavily enough in themselves (see the 5th trait below).

4. Successful people aren’t afraid to fail. If reward is a function of risk and fear of failure discourages taking acceptable risks then reward must correspondingly diminish. Successful people take calculated risks.  Failure is also a great teacher, which leads to the final trait.

5. Successful people invest in themselves. In my opinion, this is the most important factor contributing to success. Practice is essential whether you are (intend to be) a concert pianist, an Olympic athlete, a doctor or a software engineer. To the uninitiated, this trait looks simply like hard work. Successful people are often inappropriately characterized as workaholics. But if you love what you do and you’re learning, growing and improving by practicing, is it really work? Successful people are learnaholics. Over a specific period of time, they learn more than their peers. Effort is a compounding force. By spending more time, you learn more and improve. Efforts and contributions are then recognized, often with increased responsibility, which results in new learnings which equip you with even greater skills. It’s a virtuous circle.

Have you ever seen anyone succeed at something they don’t enjoy? I don’t know if we enjoy what we’re good at or if we’re good at what we enjoy, but it seems like enjoyment and success are linked. Decide to be successful at something you love.

Success isn’t preordained. Four of the five traits are entirely elective. But what if you’re not all that smart? They’ll call you an overachiever, that’s all.

The predictable path to success is to set goals and track your progress, be smart, don’t be afraid to fail from time to time and learn as much as you can along the way.

What traits do you see in the successful people you know? Leave me a comment.

4 Responses to “5 Traits of Success”

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  2. Samantha says:

    Hi Kevin,

    Nice post. The only thing I’d add is a successful person knows how to surround themselves with people who are more successful than themselves in a particular category. This allows us to always be in a position to learn and teach simultaneously; and secondly, allows us the opportunity to use our network to gain strength where our focus is not as intense.

  3. Boon says:

    Hi Kevin, good post there. If I might point out a pattern in the traits you mentioned, it’s that they all constitute a part of the feedback loop system all intelligent systems employ – dead or alive.

    1. Successful people have a clear definition of success itself. — this defines a baseline in the feedback loop.

    2. Successful people regularly revise their goals upward. — this is feedback in the very sense of the word.

    3. Successful people are usually smart. — an important device in processing feedback information and make adjustments accordingly.

    4. Successful people aren’t afraid to fail. — failure provides vital info in the feedback loop and improves the “exception handling” capability of a system.

    5. Successful people invest in themselves. — provides more intelligence and tools to the feedback loop so it can adapt and adjust to changes better.

    One of my most favorite subjects in college is Control System Engineering. Here is an article on open-loop controller, which is basically a system that doesn’t employ feedback to determine its input.

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Open_loop_control

    Notice how a lot of the things mentioned in the short article applies to real life. It’s one and the same after all. :)

  4. Great post, Kevin.I quite agree with the first and last items on your list (perhaps this subject deserves a blist ?!)


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